Lewis Carroll’s Alice asked the Cheshire Cat: “Would you please tell me which way I should go from here?”. The cat’s reply, “That depends a good deal on where you want to get to”.
This is a perfect example of the importance of setting goals. All great leaders, it seems to me, have a view of where they want to get to. Whether we call it a goal, a vision or mission, the start point is to know what you want the future to look like. The clue is in the name, leader: you have to be leading someone somewhere.
“Where do you want to get to?”, “What do you want to achieve?” is my start point for most coaching conversations. It’s also where I start when discussing strategy. I prefer this initial phase of goal setting to be unconstrained – I just ask you to decide who/what you want to be/do. Then, given everything that’s going on around you, we work out what you need to do to make that happen. Of course, there is an alternative approach: take a look at the world around you, work out what’s possible given challenges that surround you – and set your destination. However, I think great leaders set their own direction, rather than have the world choose it for them.
Whilst knowing where you are heading is a great start, it’s not enough. In my experience, working with a wide range of business leaders, compelling goals align their business (what’s in it for the company) with their professional (what’s in it for my future) and their personal (what’s in it for my family/friends) goals. Compelling goals need to be as appealing to the followers as they are to the leader: no goal is complete until it excites you, your company, your boss, your team, the board, customers, suppliers, family, friends, colleagues….. a great goal works for, and excites, all of your stakeholders.
A great goal is able to pull off the trick of being many things, to many people.
For a goal to be compelling it needs to be expressed as a ‘towards’ statement, rather than ‘away from’. By that I mean you should express your goal as something you want have happen (towards). Never write a goal as something you don’t want to be/have (away from). The ‘mind trick’ here is that, with a towards goal, the closer you get to to your goal, the more compelling, energising, exciting it becomes as you approach the finish line. With ‘away from’ goals, as you move further away from where you don’t want to be, the impetus to sustain your energy declines and effort reduces. Away from goals rarely end up being achieved.
The benefits of compelling goals
Compelling goals are powerful in so many ways, here are a few:
- take a look at your to-do list. Remove all of the things that have little or no impact on your goal
- when you’ve got too much to do, and not enough time in which to do it, take a look at that infinite to-do list and ask yourself, “which one task, if I complete it, has the greatest impact on achieving my goal?”. Then work on that. When you’ve completed it, repeat the question.
- with your team, identify the core set of tasks that have the greatest impact on the goal. Once you’ve got those, focus ruthlessly on them: don’t let the day-to-day distract you. (I don’t suppose you’d be surprised to hear that too often I go back to teams a few months after our sessions only to be told, “we haven’t been able to get to those yet, we’ve been too busy”). What chance do you think they’ll ever have of achieving their goal?
- but perhaps the greatest benefit of having a really compelling goal, for your self and/or your team, is that in those challenging times when we all have too much to do and not enough time in which to do it, you might be asking yourself “why do I bother?”. If you’ve got the right goal then just take a look at it and you’ve got your answer. There’s ‘why’, right in front of you. Great goals sustain you in those downtimes.
So, it may sound easy: write a goal. Take it from me, it isn’t. I recently spent 2 days with a senior team writing a goal for their business. In coaching conversations, I can easily spend 3 or 4 hours getting to a really compelling individual goals. But once you have one, you’ll be able to answer Alice’s question: choose the path that takes you towards your goal.